This has been a pretty hectic week! Now, I grind everyday of the week, but Saturday and Sunday are my “chill days”. These are extra Regroup, Reflection, and Redirection if necessary. I’m an empty nester now, so Coaching is my Baby, cause I love it which makes it easy for me!
There is nothing wrong with taking time for yourself. That is your overall purpose and goal! I’m speaking more so from a place of….NOT being HAPPY where you are at in life overall.
Before my journey began, I was all about chaotic behavior. Saturdays and Sundays were my free days to just do whatever, no work, just “play”! Yes, there is someone saying “there is nothing wrong with that”. I didn’t think so either… coming and going as I wanted, however reflecting back, was just miserable! Yes, I was hanging out with my friends, being social, and “enjoying life”….or so I thought. Something was missing. It had to be done
I was complacent. I was just doing the minimum to live. I didn’t realize how unhappy I was with how things were going for me. There were so many things that just weren’t going right, even though I still kept smiling on the outside. I had mentally told myself that this was what it was. I had accepted it, I had let my mind tell me, “You cant do this”, “it will take too long for this too happen”, “you don’t have the time to do it”.
TIME!! Why the hell don’t you have time?? You have time to hang out with your friends. You have time to sit around and mope about what you want. You have time to spend 2-3 hours a day maybe even more on social media scrolling. Seeing that same shit, that has NOTHING to do with you growing as a person. Sis, you have the TIME. Start putting it towards it true purpose……to Upgrade your Mental and UPGRADE your way of life.
We have to understand that until we get ourselves completely in tune MENTALLY, You will remain STUCK. You will remain complacent. You will keep asking why things are not going the way you feel they need to go. You will feel like everyone else is against you, but truthfully YOU are reason things have not changed for YOU. You are the reason that you are not getting ahead like you feel you should be. YOU are the reason that your life is moving slower than a turtle.
You have no one to blame for your complacency BUT YOU! I know how hard it is to come out to distract a routine. If there is ANY self doubt, displeasure, frustration, or situational depressive behavior going on with you, NOW is the time to take action!
I’m all about Accountability. I had to swallow that pill myself, and that was honestly the thing that made things begin to turn around for me. Once I accepted that I am the reason for being STUCK in my ways, I had no other choice BUT TO GET UP AND GET IT! It was either that, or never speak on my goals and dreams again because I was giving up and didn’t want to achieve nor WORK for them, I just wanted them to fall in my lap.
The Journey, whichever journey you may be on or wanted to head to, is NECESSARY! Let no one or nothing tell you that you don’t deserve any and everything you are willing to work to obtain!