I’m awake now…

These words have different meanings to different people.

Let me tell you what they mean to me.

I see and have experienced many people try to force their actions and way of thinking onto others.

As soon as you question anything outside the ‘system standard’ theres a huge problem.  You can be belittled, berated and made to feel ashamed about your own thoughts.

An even more unfortunate circumstance is that this can come from those close to you.

It causes major restrictions in people’s life,  whether they believe and understand it or not.

For example, I wanted to move out of state. I talked to several people about my thoughts. The feedback that I heard…..definitely wasn’t SUPPORT filled as far as I’m concerned:

“Are you sure that’s what you want to do?”

“You shouldn’t be making that type of decision right now.”

“Wait a few more years and we can plan to go with you.”

“What about your family? You can’t leave them they need you.”

All were instruments in keeping me stuck. NOTE: I am not blaming anyone but myself because I wasn’t strong enough back then to stand on my choices and decisions.  I take full accountability in my past restricted actions in my life.

I’m awake now.

I have spent way too much time negatively overwhelmed. Thinking with emotion held me back in life. Restricting my moves.

I made past choices that weren’t always in the best interest of ME. I admit that alot of decisions were more beneficial to others because I was fearful of letting people down. I made other people’s situations my priority and didn’t want to hurt feelings so I went along with shit.

But I am awake now…

I put “new policy” in place. Became unapologetic with my decisions and replaced the hindering emotional aspect. A reprogrammed mindset is necessary to replace the default thinking process to direct thinking mode, and living your truth.

I’m no longer worried about how others feel about choices I make in my own life.

I am done with walking on eggshells about someone’s recieving the realness of my Upgraded Mindset.

I am a reconditioned queen who makes choices based on logic and not emotional reaction.

I am first priority and teach my clients to be the same way.

Reprogramming the mindset is required to become a dope logical thinker full of confidence. We are no longer letting others decide our fate. We also are no longer allowing the guilt trips to stop us!

You have so many in denial about being an emotional thinker. I was one.

If you decide to do something you may not agree with, but going along with it to prove you are down for the cause, then you’re being a disservice to your own growth. 

If you think that because you’re  family oriented, but can count so many times you’ve held back from growing, excelling, or not making changes because of them, you are living someone’s else’s life, not yours.

Restriction of the mind is disguised is so many ways and a very common one is holding back your elevation or dimming your own light to appease others.

Reality is, we owe ourselves clarity and peace. Life is a gift, and we are obligated to live it well!  Live life on your own terms and stop incorporating other people negative influence.

Your Journey is your journey. Be unapologetic for your growth and elevation.

The Journey is Necessary…


If this resonates with you, I would love to hear from you! Shoot me a message and let’s talk about it…..


Mornin Session..

a Mind shuffle….

Ask yourself what is it that you firmly seek in your individual mind?

Are you or have you been easily or heavily influenced by others thoughts on something you wanted?

Have you make ever made your decision(s) about something and then second guess because of the negative opinion of another?

I have always maintained a certain level of confidence, so I thought. There were times that I could be locked in on a decision, then one comment from someone else could literally have me back at square one with the whole situation. Why did it happen?

Whether we want to believe it or not, as individuals, there are some who tend to reside in their lives based on others think they should live. Having divergent paths and procedures for the “different” seems to be viewed in a negative aspect. These negative patterns that are thrown to one another create restriction and small havoc unnecessarily. This is likely to be one of multiple reasons we suppress our true thoughts, the ones we desperately want to bring to the forefront. Seeing and being surrounded with many different beliefs, core values, and systems in place, the true struggle seems to be finding what YOURS are.


That was ME. I seem to have struggled with the common core beliefs of society. Restricted and quite frankly, lazy to the lesson. This mind of mine always has busted out the “but what if” factor. Meaning, I didn’t want to necessarily agree and accept something just because it is what someone else chose to. But i surpressed it for not wanting to be in conflict with someone else. Why should I though? We are supposed to have a mind of our own….and I have since taken a personal vow to my higher self, that I will be applying and embracing my life unapologetically how I see fit…..end of story.

Why follow someone else’s version of YOUR way of life, when you feel it in your soul that it is not for you? Make no more excuses for seeking and achieving total clarity…FOR YOU…

The Journey is Necessary…..

Don’t apologize…

Don’t apologize for wanting to live for you….

Don’t apologize for those that you have to leave behind mentally….

Don’t apologize for understanding that in order to level up to where you want to be, that hard changes and adjustments have to happen….

Don’t apologize for wanting complete clarity in your life, even if that involves reviewing your beliefs and changing them….

Don’t apologize for setting your boundaries for other people.

Don’t apologize for implementing the shift in your mindset.

Don’t apologize for wanting to be a overall better person…

Don’t apologize for understanding that you may need guidance to embrace the positive life and balance you want to achieve.

Dont apologize for your UPgraded Mindset…..start your journey, start living freely, start creating your positive mental being….

Don’t apologize……

Hard Conversation

Everybody is not meant to go on your journey with you.

We love our family. Friends. Boyfriends, Husbands. Wives. Children.

Again, Everybody is not meant to go on your journey with you.

I have had “the conversation” with my family, my friends, my circle, and those who are important to me.

Long story short, the entrepreneurial plans to them for my choices. One time “informational reflection” to them how I now think, act and conduct my affairs different. There is a level of clarity I have sought and that where I continue to pursue. I have ensured them how far this mindset will go to protect my peace, which can and will result in cutting anyone off who has other malice, negative bearing intentions.

My purpose is for my clarity, life and total success for me. Period.

It has never been our responsibility to make others understand what it is we want out of our lives. Gone are the days of explanation, as we do not owe anyone an explanation no matter how someone may try and manipulate our mind to believe that we do. You are your priority.

When you are seeking an UPgraded Mindset, that will even mean that you will have to move forward without those who are not ready for their own journey. Those who don’t want it, JUST DON’T WANT IT at the same time you do. There does not have to be any love lost, there does not have to be any conflict. Negative clouds will stall a Positive advancement EACH and every time. Don’t think that you will be different, you won’t…

Your “conversation” has to happen when you are ready to make real changes in your life . Either you are supportive for my shift for the positive or you are not. The conversation is not to ask for approval. It is a courtesy to let them know that there is about to be a major Mindset Shift over here for the better. Let them know your changes are here and what boundaries are about to be set with you Mentally.

Simply put, If those boundaries are broken, violated, ignored….. it is time to move forward, without those who are not respectingthe boundaries you have laid out. Achieving a reconditioned, positive mindset is not something that you can achieve still allowing negative people, places or things to be still sitting on the front burner of your “mental stove”.

LOVE Them, but LEAVE them with best wishes and no love lost.. Keep your peace at ALL costs!

This journey and conversation is necessary.

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